Tell us about yourself and how many books you have written.
I am Marilee Grace! I am the founder and lead Life Transformation Coach at RightSwipeGirl. I am also a speaker and author. In January 2024, I will be adding “podcast host” to my list, too! I have written one book, several magazine articles and have a devotional that was included in a collaborative book featuring Kansas City area writers.
What is the name of your latest book and what inspired it?
Right Swipe! A Quest for Love happened because of my experience on the dating apps. I was newly divorced after a 29 year marriage and I was curious. Women in one of my groups kept talking about the dating apps and for some reason I thought it was a good idea to give them a try. During the process of discovering and uncovering scammers, bots, and catfishers I would regularly tell my friends I could write a book about it all. So I decided to do just that. Fifteen months of data, over 200 online and a couple in person encounters, and the end result “Right Swipe! A Quest for Love.”
Do you have any unusual writing habits?
I always wanted to be that writer, the one composing at atypewriter while drinking a glass of red wine. That is the romanticized version of me as a writer. For starters, I haven’t had a typewriter for years. And I found that a glass of red wine meant a lot of next day editing. So now, my usual scenario is water, coffee, or flavored sparking water; my mini fan blowing on my face (because hot flashes are real); and blue light computer glasses on under my prescription glasses AND my monitor dimmed because the blue light glare gets to me after a couple hours of screen time. Not glamorous. Not romantic. But truly authentically me!
What authors, or books have influenced you?
I am inspired by Brene Brown, Colleen Hoover, Elizabeth Gilbert and my baseball friend mom, writer J. Sterling. J. Sterling was the one who told me “write your f’ing books!” I was thrilled when I was finally able to email her and say “I wrote my f’ing first book and it is on Amazon!”
What are you working on now?
I’m working on a Self-Love Course I will offer online and in the Kansas City metro area and also a writing course because I have learned so much in this process. My next book will be a Self-Love book with a companion workbook. I’m also working on a children’s book that features a fairy tale my grandmother made up and used to tell be when I was a little girl. It will be dedicated to my grandson!
What is your best method or website when it comes to promoting your books?
I have a closeknit group of coaching friends who are my loudest cheerleaders and promoters. We encourage each other as we dive into new niches and new adventures. They are the ones who cheer me on and keep me accountable!
Do you have any advice for new authors?
It is big and scary and feels overwhelming. Do it anyway. Just do it scared and do it anyway! Write your f’ing book!
What is the best advice you have ever heard?
Two things. J. Sterling telling me to just write the f’ing book was pivotal for me. She looked me dead in the eyes and gave me that instruction. And then my writing circle mentor Donna Jenson told me to practice some piece of self-care every day when I was deep in the trenches of writing “Right Swipe! A Quest for Love.” Both these ladies are published authors and know what they are talking about. I listed to them both!
What are you reading now?
Big Magic by Elizabeth Gilbert
What’s next for you as a writer?
Next up is a fairytale for young readers based on my favorite story my grandmother told me when I was growing up. She was an amazing storyteller. And for adults, a book on the Essential art of Self-Love and I’m going to have a companion workbook that goes along with it.
What is your favorite book of all time?
That changes all the time. It is usually what I am currently reading if I really like it. I’m going to change the question. What book has had a profound effect on your life? Still a hard question and I have several answers but my top answer… the book that hit deep was “The Body Keeps the Score” by Bessel van der Kolk.
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