Tell us about yourself and how many books you have written.
Stella Grae is an unassuming English professor, copyeditor, and copywriter living in Lexington, Kentucky. She’s the author of the short story “Power Play” that was originally published in the website erotica journal Oysters and Chocolate. In her spare time she enjoys sipping on bourbon, nibbling cheesy grits, and philosophizing about love and sex in her blog, “Bone Up,” which can be found on her site stellagraeerotica.weebly.com along with other sexy tidbits. Just Call Me Confidence is her first erotica novel.
What is the name of your latest book and what inspired it?
When I began writing Just Call Me Confidence, it was actually a diversion, or really, a cure of sorts from writer’s block in another novel I had begun years before. I found that the more I wrote, the better the story became, and it soon took on a life of its own. I fell in love with the characters and their lives. I was also about to turn 40, so this piece is definitely a reflection of where I was mentally in that time of my life–on the precipice of not really old, but not really young either.
Do you have any unusual writing habits?
I don’t know that my writing habits are unusual, but I do sometimes do some “research” before I write—ha ha. I am an early morning writer, too. My mind is clear and I tend to get bogged down if I wait later into the day to write.
What authors, or books have influenced you?
Anne Jewel has been a big influence. I really adore her writing style and the way she shapes her characters. Gemma James’ writing has been on my radar for a while, and I really admire her. Cassidy Lish is my erotica influence. I just love the way she writes an erotic scene. In my opinion, she can’t be topped!
What are you working on now?
I’m working on the sequel to Just Call Me Confidence. It’s tentatively titled “The Cheater’s Club,” which I know may be controversial, but it’s definitely not what readers may think. It’s a lot darker, grittier, and doesn’t quite have the same “sunny disposition” as JCMC.
What is your best method or website when it comes to promoting your books?
So, far I’ve used Instagram almost exclusively. I like the bookstagram community. They’ve been very supportive about sharing, reviewing, and just being very positive. I feel like anyone can find his/her niche. Also, Shepherd Books has been great as well.
Do you have any advice for new authors?
I actually have two pieces of advice. Grind now, shine later (thank you IG random quote)—keep working and don’t give up. You’ll hate yourself if you do! I think it’s important, especially for new authors, to let the characters evolve because that process makes for interesting twists and turns, and the result is a believable character audiences can relate to in an organic way.
What is the best advice you have ever heard?
Grind now, shine later. Don’t give up or you’ll hate yourself later!
What are you reading now?
I just finished up a series of books by Cassidy Lish—the Everyday Encounters series. The characters and the scenes were so sexy and her writing is excellent! I really enjoy her stories.
What’s next for you as a writer?
I’m planning on continuing to write, to expand my blog. I’m really into nonfiction essay at the moment—reading and writing. I worked with Rachel Kramer Bussell on something recently for Open Secrets Magazine, which I’m really proud of. Also, I may do another novellette, like DOMcember, which I published at the holidays. Exploring more kink in my writing, I believe.
What is your favorite book of all time?
My favorite book of all time…that’s like asking me my favorite food—impossible. I will say that I loved Gillian Flynn’s books, especially Gone Girl. That was just a brilliant piece of writing.
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